On Sunday we went to hear the first banns read for our daughters marriage in December, my elderly father in law( hes 82) attended with us. We sat in the beautiful little church, the sun was shining and it was the Harvest Festival. My father in law told us a story about when he married, the church warden asked his mother, who was sat waiting for the wedding ceremony to start, if she would like the candles lit, his mother misheard the church warden and thought he said would you like to cancel it. Sarah my father in laws mother said she did not want to cancel it and didn't know why they would ask such a thing, and that is why the candles in the church that day were not lit for the wedding!
Kind regards Susan