Hi Libby,
It does get very confusing.
I have two Armitage families, one via my husbands gt grandfather and the other via my husbands gt grandmother.
Elizabeth Armitage married William Lockwood 1835 Silkstone.
I have her father as Richard Armitage who married Sarah Lockwood 1802 Silkstone.
On Richards death certificate 1840 aged 77 yrs Hoylandswaine ( if it is the correct one the informant is Benjamin Armitage Penistone)
I don't know who this Benjamin is or anything else about Richard.
Richards marriage to Sarah did not state him as a widower, but I think it could have been his second marriage.
Back to Elizabeth Armitage, her grandson Edward (born Thurgoland 1841) married Mary Dickinson, the daughter of Joseph Dickinson and Mary Hinchliffe.
Joseph Dickinson Bap Cawthorne was the son of Israel / Ezra Dickinson
Ezra Dickinson married Margaret Armitage (1806 Silkstone).
Margaret was the daughter of Joseph Armitage.
Joseph Armitage married Mary Thompson (1770 in Silkstone) he was from Cawthorne.
That was good to get off my chest, hope you could follow that.
Appreciate any input you may have.

KR