Hello,
I noticed your request about the Bellam/Butt family. I am a distant relation of the Ballems of Alderney. For ages I was misled by a misread of the 1861 census which gave the surname as Ballern but I have since been sent the marriage certificate of Elizabeth Ballem (my great-great grandmother) which confirms the surname as Ballem. It also appears as Bellam on an earlier census. Sophie Ballem was the sister of James Ballem, my great-great-great grandfather. Their mother was Mary Ann Butt, listed as an Innkeeper on the 1861 census. At that time presumably Sophie (married Gaudion) had died because her children Sophia and Edward are living with Mary Ann. I hope this information is of interest to you. If I can help with information on the other Ballems (there is a descendant named Ballem living in Australia), please let me know.