Hello Jan,
I am so pleased to hear back from you and extremely grateful for any help. I have a Henry Courtnage who married a Charlotte Hounsome on the 13th July 1816 in Bepton, Sussex. I am confident this Henry courtnage was married before to Sarah Mitchell. I took an extract from the Parish Register, so I know he was a bachelor (unless he was lying of course) when he married sarah on 17th June 1783 at Kridford. They had 7 children together - all their baptisms accounted for up to Shadrach on 20th June 1813. By process of illimination I believe this Henry came from Farnhurst. I have a bapstism of 21st February 1768 for him, but I need to be sure I have the right Henry. Sarah died when Shadrach was 16 months old and was buried at Bepton on 27th October 1814 leaving him with a string of young children. Somehow he ended up marrying Charlotte Hounsome in 1816 and went on to have a lot of other children. Eliza 1817, John 1819, Geoorge 1822, James 1825, Daniel 1826 (My x 2 Gt.Grandfather), Frederick 1827, Caroline 1828,
I then have a Caroline 1828, Another Eliza or Elizabeth in1830, James 1832, Eleanor 1834, Henry 1835 and Emily in 1838. I've obviously gone horribly wrong with the last 5 as Charlotte couldn't possibly have been having all these babies!! I believe Charlotte was baptised on 20th Sept 1789 at Cocking. Her husband Henry was at least 20 years older than her. I've looked at this until i'm blue in the face and its driving me mad, but I can't put it down.
Please excuse this long message, but I would welcome any help you can offer.
With grateful thanks, Lesley