Migky
You are right of course, but my daughter from my marriage doesn't want to know her half-sister, which makes things very difficult. Before she traced me, I had never told anyone because of the disgrace etc. etc. even my husband and children. My husband was totally unphased and took me to Ireland to meet her as soon as I told him.
Fortunately, my sons are more like their dad about the whole thing and one of them came over to meet her, when she visited me before Christmas, so that was nice.
Lizzie