That's exactly what I mean about 'name collectors'

They just want to boast about having a large number of people in their tree, correct or not

I had a similar difficulty with someone who claimed to be related to me through her husband's family

She opened her tree to me and when I checked I noticed she had some dates apparently wrong. I got my grand-daughter to check it all with me and we compared what I had already got, and had certs etc., to prove it all, and sent an e-mail to this person, giving her the details. After a while I got a reply to the effect that I was wrong and her dates were definitely correct....never mind that she had one relative giving birth to two children within 6 months

What had happened was, she had noticed that I had some family members with the same names as some of hers, and from the same city. She just assumed they must be the same family regardless, and has so far refused to acknowledge her errors.
However she did say something that was quite revealing....she told me she wasn't going to change her tree because she had reached her target of 1,000 names and had no plans to change that
