So here we have it... What do you think?
Facts
1. 1831 James or Joseph Underhill born 1795 married Rachael King
2. 1843 William H Willoughby married Mary Anne Pearse Pierce Pearce 15 Aug Holy Trinity, Clapham, Surrey, England
3. Sept 1844 A daughter Mary Ann Willoughby born to William H Willoughby and Mary Anne Pearse Pierce Pearce above Rochester, Kent, England
4. 1846 Joseph Underhill Willoughby born Christchurch, Surrey, England ( parents ambiguous)
5. 1848 John Underhill Willoughby born Chatham, Kent, England ( parents ambiguous)
6. 1850 Emillie Underhill Willoughby born Chatham, Kent, England ( parents ambiguous)
7. 1851 William Henry Willoughby states that he is single whilst in Essex.
8. 1851 Rachael Underhill ( King ) Housekeeper in St Margaret Kent, but not living with her husband
9. 1854 Frederick Stephen Underhill Willoughby born Chatham, Kent, England ( parents ambiguous)
10. 1855 Rebecca Underhill Willoughby born Chatham, Kent, England ( parents ambiguous)
11. 1859 Edward Daniel Underhill Willoughby born, St Margaret, Kent, England ( parents ambiguous)
12. 1861 Mary Ann states that she is a widow, whilst in same boarding house as Joseph or James Underhill
13. 1866 Rachael Underhill dies St Margaret Kent
14. 1867 Emillie Underhill Willoughby 1st marriage to Robert Soutter
15. 1870 Joseph Underhill Willoughby and Caroline Ann Hobart marriage
16. 1871 James or Joseph Underhill resides with “family” Joseph Underhill, John Underhill, Frederick Underhill and Edward Underhill. Mary Anne (wife) and her two daughters are elsewhere. His brother in law John Pearce and his widowed sister Rebecca Birch also reside.
17. 1872 Caroline Ann Hobart (Underhill) Willoughby servant at Denmark Arms, No 1 Albert Road, St. Margaret's, Rochester, Kent
18. 1872 Joseph Underhill Willoughby and Caroline Ann Hobart on "Thomas Stephens" to Melbourne Victoria
19. 1872 Emillie Underhill Willoughby 2nd marriage to Charles Agnew Turner
20. 1872 Rebecca Underhill Willoughby marriage to Algernon Payan Percy
21. 1873 John Underhill Willoughby marriage to Emma Smith
22. 1874 Frederick Stephen Underhill Willoughby marriage to Maria Matilda South
1875 Rebecca Percy Underhill Willoughby birth
23. 1883 Emillie Underhill Willoughby 3rd marriage to George Edward Hare
24. 1884 James or Joseph Underhill death Rochester St Margaret, Kent, England
Still there are many questions .. There is one piece of important information that links part of this family
1891 Emily Hare ( Underhill Willoughby) is living in 14 Fulham Park Gardens, Fulham, London with her son Richard Soutter from her 1st marriage, Stepsister Mary Ann Willoughby and Millie Willoughby niece. Mary Ann Willoughby is deaf. She is a step sister? Who is Millie Willoughby?
Born 1880 Fulham, Middlesex?