Northern Girl; What on earth are ye apologising for? I was only checking I had the right place because I had it in my head North Cave was in Cheshire. A glance at Google said East Yorks. I just wanted to check I had the right place

I just really want to know where the lamb surname has come into the family.
Well, how about we start with the basics? How do ye know the name
does have anything to do with ye family? 'Because my Gran said so.'
Ok. Cool. What I'd do ~ what I do anyway ~ is I'd find ye Grandma's siblings. Check out who each of them married. No Lambs? Go back a generation.
Point is; I wouldn't put all my eggs in the one basket that ye
Grand Mother necessarily married a Lamb. Things can get surprisingly confused, over time. Cast around a bit.
Is ye Gran still about? If so, get back to her. Ask more. A great trick, with older folk, is to remind them of their earlier answer, only
get it wrong. Eg. She once said, " Auntie Alice married Johnny Lamb. " So, you say to her; " Ye said before that Auntie Edith married Johnny Lamb ..... " See what what she says.
Surprisingly, she may say something completely off the wall. But that'd give ye another clue. Same trick can work when she first off can't remember
who in hell married that Johnny guy. Make out she'd said X. See if she corrects ye and says it was
Y.
If she's Not around? Try the same stuff with ye parents and any other living rellies. But, above all; Get amongst them and get talking to them. It's a bugger when they're gone and ye sit there wishing ye had!
Some sort of tape recorder also beats the hell out of all the notes ye can ever take, at the time, too. Just keep ye eye on those spools!

Been there. Didn't do that. Regretting it, even thirty odd years later!
