I can only see 2 Henry Abbotts in the 1841:
One with parents Thomas and Fanny, which you said isn't "yours", and the other as follows:-
HO107 piece 899 folio 6/3 page 1
Bog Hall, Childs Ercall
George Morgan 45 Farmer
Eliz Morgan 40
John Morgan 15
Mary Ann Morgan 13
Thos Simmister 20 M S
Henry Abbots 15 M S
Ellen Simmister 15 F S
John Naggington 13
All born in County
Bog Hall still exists today.....Hatton Road, Hinstock, Market Drayton