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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #9 on: Friday 31 July 09 17:12 BST (UK) »
Slightly off topic but what do you think of the message below that I received yesterday.  Does he think I'm a miracle worker?  No dates, no places!

Any thoughts, sorry I missed staines.


hi i may be a missing link contact me , my grandfarther was reginald green , his farther was ernest james green , his farther was a james green , i think i had been going down the wrong road and found details of james green in staines who's farther was a john green and susan green .




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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #10 on: Friday 31 July 09 17:21 BST (UK) »
Don't answer; you'll be led farther afield.
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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #11 on: Friday 31 July 09 17:39 BST (UK) »
I have my tree in the public domain.  In fact I had done it before joining this site and coming across the `problem` of name stealing.  It made me consider how I would feel if it ever happened to me and I decided it was a risk I would take. 

And to quote what I said in a post on a similar topic: http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,389432.msg2613057.html#msg2613057

I have my tree on the web and am happy for any one to view it.  If someone finds they are related and wish to copy my tree - fine, after all I got 99% of the information for free!  If they then copy people and get it wrong that's their problem.  Would I be upset? possibly - most likely probably - but having chosen to make my tree available to the public that is something I will have to face.


 
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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #12 on: Friday 31 July 09 17:53 BST (UK) »
I have a public tree on Ancestry and I don’t mind if people acquire my information per-say, but what irks me is when the information they do obtain from it is then transcribed incorrectly – including surnames. 

My other observation is there are two trees on Ancestry that have taken my information, but for the life of me I cannot begin to find the link as to why they are on there.  Quite frankly I don’t have the time to wade through the 34,000+ names(!) that they have on their trees!  I could contact them, though I doubt they’d know the connection either!  I don’t get it!  (I know the family history equivalent of gathering the names for the cast of Ghandi has been a frequently raised topic on RC in the past.)

Call me sentimental fool, but I like to ‘get to know’ the people I put on my tree, be it the one in the public domain or the one on my hard drive. 

It seems to me that even if you put a welcoming message on your profile inviting people to get in touch it seems people are too shy to communicate with you remotely – but aren’t that shy about lifting your information.   

As you say Wildtech (I've just seen your input as was I getting ready to post this), it’s their problem, but where they get their enjoyment or ‘job satisfaction’ from mystifies me!

I feel better now getting that lot off my chest – it’s been one of those days!

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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #13 on: Friday 31 July 09 21:11 BST (UK) »
Don't answer; you'll be led farther afield.

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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #14 on: Friday 31 July 09 21:43 BST (UK) »
Slightly off topic but what do you think of the message below that I received yesterday.  Does he think I'm a miracle worker?  No dates, no places!

Any thoughts, sorry I missed staines.


hi i may be a missing link contact me , my grandfarther was reginald green , his farther was ernest james green , his farther was a james green , i think i had been going down the wrong road and found details of james green in staines who's farther was a john green and susan green .



Don't answer; you'll be led farther afield.


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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #15 on: Friday 31 July 09 22:00 BST (UK) »
I could contact them, though I doubt they’d know the connection either! 
Pip

I had this happen a few years ago, was searching for information online on my DORANS (DORRANS) and came across them in a tree on Rootsweb.
The owner kept insisting she didn't have any DORANS in her tree.
When I was finally able to convince her that she did, she came back with no idea why they are in her tree and no idea who they are

I would rather my public tree wasn't copied.  I do accept it has in part and will most likely be again.

Mick
Jeffs - Northamptonshire to Leicestershire to Queensland, Australia
Lewis - Wales to Gloucestershire to NSW & Queensland, Australia
Iddols & Baylis - Gloucestershire
Mary Jones - born 1863 Staffordshire, died 1948 Queensland, Australia
daughter of James Jones and Eliza Aston
Dorans - Ireland to Scotland to Queensland, Australia
Ralph - Ireland to Scotland to Queensland, Australia
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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #16 on: Saturday 01 August 09 00:10 BST (UK) »
I don't have a tree on Ancestry - just use the site for the databases - though they do keep sending me emails encouraging me to 'get started'.  They're about 10 years too late for that!

I have an outline tree only on GR - names, years and counties for events - enough to determine a connection but not enough to pilfer.  Oddly enough the contacts I have had the most success with I've never needed to exchange trees at all.  It becomes obvious from messages that both parties know who they are talking about and missing info can be exchanged without the tree being seen.

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Re: How cross would you be, or am I over reacting?
« Reply #17 on: Saturday 01 August 09 00:35 BST (UK) »
Quite agree Lydart!  He/she received a sharp reply from me,
Abiam