Good Morning, Monica. I shall do that, it was a useful tree. Viewing the results as a tree would be easier, you can then see at a glance what they have that you don't. Anyway I have updated it so the version above is now correct- except for Mary Crawford! I have a similar problem in two other family brances, particularly one who is great aunt on grandmother's side, great aunt on grandfather's side and great grandmother too! Keeping it in the family makes family treeing a real headache!
However we referred earlier to alternatives. I have a 2nd Peter Wilkie, similar birth date, Glassary, married to a Euphemia, and a second John with son Hector McLean Wilkie married to a Louisa. Looking back at this and the fact that of the children of John and Isabella only Duncan has the middle name and it actually reads McLan not Mclean I think my identification of Hector as the soldier must be wrong, as the soldier is specifically McLean Wilkie, so is probably Louisa's son. In which case I may be wrong about Isabella neing a McLean. Back to the drawing board....sigh.
Kind regards
Catherine