Laurina and Chris,
Thank you for th replies/ Henry and Martha Gander are Charity's father-in-law and mother-in-law. Perhaps when the census of 1841 was taken, William and Charity had not yet married. I do have a copy of the birth registration but am not able to decipher Charity's father's first name.
I have the names for their children. I, also, have a Mary Gander, born 28 June 1857 to William and Charity. James, (1831 cebsus), is of no relation, that I have found to date. I have to wonder why, in 1831, that James would be the only Gander listed as Henry and Martha settled in Lewes in 1817. My great great grandfather, George Gander, (son of Henry and Martha), was born in Lewes in 1822, (although, All Saints).
Mike