Hello Ouma and Danchaslyn,
Sorry to reply so late. I am in Oz, so always a big time difference.
My family left S Africa in 1948 and went to Rhodesia, then returned to Durban in 1970's. Both parents died in Durban, my dad on 7 July 1985 and my mom on 8 Dec 1987.
I think they were married in Mayfair, J'burg in the Presbyterian Church.
My dad had a heap of siblings and as far as I can remember, he had sisters, named Betty, Gertie and another named Miems whose married name was Beckley. She lived in Bloemfontein in 1960 and 70's. One brother was Jaapie, another, Boet, but these must have been nick names. His siblings always lived in S Africa. We were the only ones who moved around, that's the trouble.
Anyway, will be glad to have some light shed on the mystery.
Thanks to you both for all your efforts.
Lorraine