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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #72 on: Thursday 04 June 09 10:28 BST (UK) »
Can I delete my comment before the others wake up  ;D
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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #73 on: Thursday 04 June 09 10:30 BST (UK) »
GO AHEAD QUICKLY
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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #74 on: Thursday 04 June 09 10:34 BST (UK) »
Now you just have to adjust reply 70 - please  :-*
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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #75 on: Thursday 04 June 09 15:45 BST (UK) »
I'm glad to have made such an impact so soon! ;D  My family and ancestors seem to have their roots firmly embedded in Herefordshire. I too was born and grew up in Herefordshire. In my early days I may have felt a slight connection with the place but that has long since gone. I never truly did feel I was home. Strange I know, considering how many ancestral ties I have with the place but there never has been that feeling of contentment. Perhaps I was picking up bad vibes from my ancestors about the county?

For a long time I've wanted to find the place that I could consider to be my home. I've tried the practical and logical route. I've read books and planned visits and trips to different locations I believed I would feel a connection with. So far this route has drawn a blank and I could search forever this way.

Now I have decided to search my family tree and try and find some roots that leave Herefordshire and hopefully end up in a few locations I've never visited. Ancestral belonging is just as valid a reason for visiting a place as reading about it in a book, more so even. I'm not looking for some Utopia, just for a location that makes me feel contented. An added tingle or deja vu to confirm my belief would also be most welcome.

I also wish to research the family tree to prove the connection to a place before I do visit. I remember watching John Hurt on WDYTYA? and how he moved home to his supposed Irish roots so that his children could be born in Ireland. He looked utterly devastated when it turned out that his one ancestor was the biggest liar going and he had built his life on a fallacy. I hope to at least get some proof before I go looking for home.

Even at this early stage of researching I can probably say I have a foot in both camps in that I'm enjoying the actual genealogy/searching process. At my own annoyance I often step back and spot something of interest. Having an inquisitive mind it can tend to wander off the beaten track. Before I know it I'm asking myself questions like "Why on earth did they marry?", or "What does that job title really mean?" 

I never set out to catch the genealogy bug but as so many of you have commented it does seem to be an addictive activity.

Best wishes,

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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #76 on: Thursday 04 June 09 16:47 BST (UK) »
Not long ago, I gave a "researcher" access to my tree (via GenesReunited) and he copied the whole lot on to his tree even though he was only connected by a few VERY distant marriages.  I can't say that I was really bothered but was left a bit puzzled.  ::)
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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #77 on: Thursday 04 June 09 16:49 BST (UK) »
Doing that doesn't inspire you to share your findings Jayson.
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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #78 on: Thursday 04 June 09 23:12 BST (UK) »
The same happened to me Jayson - and he had absolutely no connection to my family at all!!

Very odd!   Said he could only do the research if he had the tree on his 'page' - or whatever it is called.

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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #79 on: Thursday 04 June 09 23:46 BST (UK) »
I think in our own personal research it is easy for things to go sour when we reach brick walls.
I swap onto different lines, even my husbands family.
But even then, sometimes there are too many brickwalls and all of them seem to have a pile of lemons sitting on them.

I guess it is up to us to turn those lemons into lemonade  ;D

And the only way to get lemonade is persistence, dedication and a little bit of sugar  ;)

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Re: Is Family History starting to sour?
« Reply #80 on: Friday 05 June 09 00:23 BST (UK) »
Interesting comment about mind over matter Joboy and that reminds me of the Jeremy Irons (I think) WDYTYA programme.  He was sure his family came from Ireland where he had made his home and felt he belonged.  The programme found this to be completely incorrect.  I think they actually came from Scotland?

Kerry
Glad you brought that up Kerry .... I did'nt know about Jeremy Irons' stong belief that his forbears were Irish.
I guess it only goes to show that our minds can be influenced so much.
If we all dug into our UK backgrounds (for instance) we would possibly find a 'grand mix' of Scandinavian (Vikings) Spanish (Armada) Italian (Roman invasion) French (Norman conquest) et al.
I have 'Dupytrens Contracture' http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dupuytren%27s_contracture which is commonly attribured to a Viking background or Alcoholism (which I do 'nudge' a wee bit) but I cant say that I have ever had the desire to do a little raping or pillaging as would the Vikings.
Joe
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