I am trying to track back ancestors of Christina Palmer who married Thomas Harvey in 1873. Printout shows Benjamin Palmer as a witness, and ITM shows wedding was to take place at the house of Benjamin Palmer in Thames
(see previous post
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,347783.0.html)
I am presuming

that Benjamin was her father.
Althea has kindly shown a Benjamin Palmer, miner, on a Thames Directory for 1875, which could be the same man. A Benjamin Palmer was buried in Thames in 1912 at age 69 so could be her father, but his birth in 1843 doesn't fit with hers in 1852

The only passenger arrival I can find is a Benjamin Palmer arrived in Auckland in 1849 as a member of 8th Detachment of Fencibles and a Fencibles site shows he was born 1805 and died in Auckland in 1879.
NZ BDM search shows a Benjamin Palmer died 1875 at age 75 which could be the same man.
Can anyone show that he was (or was not) the father of Christina.
NZ BDM has no record of a Christina Palmer born in NZ around 1852 (she was 21 when married in 1873) but there are several un-named female Palmer children about that time. Would a printout from that era show parents?