I've made this comment on other threads where this has been discussed, but I make no apology for repeating it.....
None of us could have a family tree at all, if it were not for work done by lots of other people (often unpaid).
So, your family tree is not all your own work.
If we all let one bad experience make us withdraw our knowledge from the public domain, then what's the point of sites like GR and Ancestry ?
I've recently had to pull my tree out of public view, because of a legal action that I'm taking over an inheritance, but I feel very guilty about it, when I see all the information that others are happy to share with me.