Thats ok Sylvia, with so many names and dates in our heads it's easy to get sidetracked. I am just thankful for your help, there is family in Cardiff and I would like to find them.
Violetta Frances Charlotte Ellard died on 5th January 1900, 9 days after her fall.
It's a very sad story really as she was widowed when her husband drowned 4 months before my hubbys granddad was born, (she also had 4 other children) and then to lose his mother when he was 6, he never spoke about it to anyone, he was a kind gentle man who lived to the age of 82.