Hi Marion,
Thank you so much for the message. Yes I am still doing research although most of it is now on Ancestry. There were two Thomas Wickendens in my family, one born in 1849 and one in 1884, it was the latter who fought in WW1. He was with the Rifle Brigade and seems to had 3 service numbers, 1556, 31806 & 48660. He served in France, Malta and India.
He was born in Gravesend in Kent but lived most of his life in Croydon. I must leave it to you to judge whether or not the item concerned (a medal?) belongs to my family.
I very much look forward to hearing from you.
Geoff.