Well, I've been looking at these Ellingtons/Wilsons most of the morning at the Record Office, and I can truly say that I'm now even more confused than ever!! I know - not what you wanted to hear!

Perhaps if I just list what I've found, someone with a clearer mind than mine is at the moment, might be able to decipher what's going on!!
1. The 28 Oct 1833 marriage at All Saints, Sculcoates of Thomas Wilson & Harriet Ellington has them both 'of this parish', he signed, she made her mark. Witnesses were William X Burton & John Bradbury.
2. Forget about the Harriet Ellington supposedly baptised in Preston 28 Oct 1802 (IGI). There is a Harriet baptised 26 Oct 1802 but she's the daughter of John & Mary ? (couldn't make out the surname but it definetly wasn't Ellington) and the entry above is for an Elizabeth d/o Davy Elletson. So, I think that's a transcription error on behalf of the IGI.
3. The Drypool baptism 29 Sep 1833 of Daniel Wilson has him s/o Thomas, a shoemaker & Harriet of this parish.
4. I couldn't find baptisms for either Elizabeth (c.1843) or Ellen (c.1844/5) in either Drypool or Sculcoates, but there is still that IGI for Elizabeth in Holy Trinity, Hull in 1842 d/o Thomas &
Ann.
5. I also found the following baptisms which might fit in somewhere:-
May 2 1830 Drypool Elizabeth Wilson d/o Thomas, shoemaker & Harriet of parish of Sutton.
Dec 13 1835 Drypool Sarah Elizabeth Wilson d/o Thomas & Harriet, cordwainer of Sutton.
Oct 11 1840 Sculcoates All Saints Harriot Wilson d/o Thomas & Harriot, mariner. Abode: Charles Sq.
6. I'm afraid I couldn't find a baptism for Harriet Ellington in either Beverley, Drypool or Sculcoates.
7. In Beverley St Mary's, there are the following baptisms for the 2 boys that Yorkslass found on the 1841 census living with a Harriett Wilson in Beverley:-
Jan 21 1831 Richard s/o John, a groom & Harriet Foreman of Wood Lane, Beverley.
Nov 13 1832 William bastard s/o Harriet Ellington, spinster, workhouse.
8. The Removal Order dated 30 Jan 1834 is to remove Thomas Wilson, cordwainer of Beverley and Harriet his wife from Beverley St Martin parish to Beverley St Mary parish. No children or other family are mentioned. It also states that, on 30 Jan, thay accept that the order cannot be carried out as Thomas Wilson, one of the paupers to be removed is unable to travel by reason of a serious illness. This obviously didn't last long, as the Order was carried out on Feb 3.
Because I was looking out for Harriets, one baptism that caught my attention was in Beverley St Mary Mar 21 1808 Harriet illegitimate d/o Ellen Norris. I made a note of it because Ellen was a name she (or at least who we think is her!) used to name one of her own children. What's more. I've looked on the IGI and this Ellen Mary Norris is the daughter of a Richard ( name of Harriet's son).
I'm probably jumping at straws here - and, anyway, I'm thwarted because I can't find a marriage on the IGI for this Ellen Norris. I was sort of hoping she might have married a Mr Ellington whose name Harriet then adopted!! I should know by now - it's never that easy!!
Please, someone see if they can make any sense of all of the above!!
Jill