Hey Lu,
I ordered the probate package of Eliza HYDE (Edgar/Ernest's mother). She died on or about the 20th January, 1931. it helped confirm a couple of things. The first will was made 1901 (after her husband Charles had died). Edgar was to be left a book "Household Treasure" and that was all for him! Her personal property was to be split up between her daughters and the real estate just split to - 1 quarter to daughter Lizzie, 1 quarter to son Arthur (so this was Arthur George born 1873) and 1/2 to son Frederick. It appears Lizzie never married.
It appears the twin daughters born in 1872 were Bertha and Helen. The 1901 will gives Helen's husband as Edwin REAVES, none mentioned for Bertha. I can't seem to find a marriage, children or death for Helen or her husband though.
Another interesting thing is it mentions a daughter Mary Lees Excelsior (married to Robert BLEAKLEY. I looked up the BMD and Mary was registered in 1870. On the passenger list it had Harriet HYDE being born on the ship on the way over from England. Her birth date being 17th July, 1870. I think they Mary IS Harriet and they have registered her name different once in NZ. The Excelsior was the ship they came out on - I don't know where the LEES came from! There is no reference to Harriet (marriage or death) once in NZ.
Also - I think the Martha on the passenger list with the family might have been Charles sister, Martha - not DAUGHTER. The sister, Martha, was born in 1850, only 8 years before Charles and Eliza's first child. There is no birth or other record for a daughter Martha.
Thanks Lu for directing me to the Probates. It's not so hard when you know how to do it!!
Thanks again everyone for their contribution in untangling this family!
Loz