For Iain,
I think I know the father of John Lindores in your message.
While he is not buried with the others, the only information I could find about him was that he lived with a Betsy and had a daughter Isabella, according to the Census records, who was born in Roxburghshire. They were living in Smailholm in 1861 and Gordon in 1851
Betsy had at least 3 children before Isabella, as they are noted as step children in each Census (51 and 61).
I think we have the same family!
Victoria