I can well believe how difficult it's been, I felt sorry for you the minute I saw the problem. It was hard because I could almost feel how long it had taken and didn't want to appear like some kind of a smart alec who was trying to teach you how to suck eggs .. when I didn't have a clue either ??
What I'm going to do is post a little of the information we have, in the hope it can wet someone else's appetite too .. it occasionally helps me if the details are written down and then we don't have to refer to the census all the time.
1881 census:
RG11/4598, Folio 21, Page 36
Yorkshire, Cudworth
Joseph Dobson, h. mar, 37, Coal Miner, b. Yorkshire, Leeds
Mary A, wife mar, 36, b. Westmorland, Milnthorpe
Mary E, dau, 9, Scholar, b. Lancaster, Dalton
Joseph, son, 7, Scholar, b. Yorks, Shafton
Hannah, dau, 5, b. Yorks, Roystone
Sarah E, dau, 9 mths?, b. Yorks, Roystone