Marriage 1850 - 1859

[BethM]

Hi could anyone help solve a puzzle for me

im looking for the marriage of Robert Payne (east grinstead)

to Tamar (either as bridgland or Mitchell)

i have thier first childs birth certificate
1859 - father robert payne mother Tamar payne formerly Mitchell
and thier last child Emily payne (my G grandmother)
b 1875 - Father Robert payne, mothyer Tamar payne formerly Bridgland

im a little baffled - im definate on the Tamar as she appears in all census's after 1851 as tamar payne - and on her deather registration as such.

definately east grinstead - i may have the date range slightly off - but in 1850 she would have been about 20

thanks for any help

Beth

[forester]

Hello Bethan,

Found this one on the IGI:

Marriage 4th October 1858, Reigate Surrey.
Robert Payne and Tamer Mitchell

I have also answered your SFHG posting and you will find more details about Tamar there.

Regards,
               Phil

[BethM]

Thnakyou again -
breaks this small wall down - 

[sillgen]

HO107 1641 F255    1851 for East Grinstead has Tamar Bridgeland age 20 b East Grinstead, a house servant with the Lenox family.  Perhaps she married twice?
Andrea

[BethM]

Thanks for looking at that - it helps confirm what ive now been given.

Thanks to phil i know she was born out of wedlock and then her mum married, hence to two names.

i had been looking for bridgland, but she married as a mitchell.
and not in the place i had been looking, when i went back i found the record, i had discounted as not being her...

must say im so glad i found this site

Beth