Audrey,
Thank you for your compliments - and for passing on RootsChat to your everybody too. The chances are, the more people that read a message on RootsChat, the more chance that somebody might have an idea that might help. 
Your grandmother was right - you never get owt for nowt - the way that RootsChat works is by how helpful everybody else is - the more everybody mucks in, the more  the RootsChatters get out. 
So let's all muck in, we can all help somebody some way or other, even if it's just a thought, a question, an inkling or just an idea.
Trystan