Hi joygee,
A Big Welcome to RootsChat.

Your poor mum

It must have been very hard on her. I see she was very young. I hope she had a good family to support her.
The first thing I note is lack of a Ronald Larry LANE. No Birth reference and I don't see a candidate in the 1911 census (admittedly it is not all available yet.) Was mum able to pass on anything about him, such as information on his family or where he grew up?
Yesterday, I spent most of the afternoon looking and I did find a few interesting things. There certainly is a Ronald Lane aboard ships till 1951 (from memory) In most cases he lists as a fireman b about 1906. Some refs are just Ronald - some are Ronald James. It strikes me as interesting that a Ronald James LANE was a ships fireman after Ronald Larry Lane deserted your mother. I cannot say if all these references are for the same person or if there is more than one Ronald Lane. His nationality wavers between English and Welsh. (1904-1906) I can only see one Ronald James Lane and he was born Wandsworth in 1906. I got my hopes up when I saw a George Thomas Lane had married his cousin in 1901 in Wandsworth. Thought I was on a roll and tracked him only to find him in Hampshire in 1911 and no son Ronald but a son born about the same time so definitely ruled them out as possible parents.
I think where I am going with this is that this Ronald James Lane cannot be found so far in 1911. Did they move to Wales and that is why he can't be found as Wales 1911 is not yet available, and maybe why he can't decide if he is English or Welsh. I may be way off and there may have been more than one Ronald Lane who was a ships fireman. Descriptions vary from no distinguishing marks, to tattoo on one arm and tattoo's on both arms. (possibly does not mean a lot even if he didn't have tattoos when mum was with him - the tattoos could have come later) Most reports list 5'7 - 5'8 one I noted lists 5'10. How accurate these records are I don't know. Just curious as he was a fireman and there does seem to be a real shortage of Ronald Lanes born about 1904-6.
I ruled out George Thomas LANE as the father of this Ronald James but on rechecking there are other marriage for George LANES in Wandsworth district 1886, 1893 and 1895 (I haven't tried to find those in 1901 yet) It will be very interesting when the rest of 1911 becomes available to see just where Ronald James is and who is his father.

We have his father as George from the marriage entry. Did mum recall anything further about his family such as mother siblings or had she by chance heard anything of a life in Wales?
Cheers Kris
