These the main entries for a potential Charlotte Turnbull in the early censuses:
Andw Dods 60, blacksmith
Isabella Dods 60, b. Scotland
John Dods 35
Jannet Dods 20
Jane Dods 20
Charlotte Turnbull 6
Address: Boryedward, Jedburgh
Isabela Dodds 73, kept by her son, b. Eaddon, Berwickshire
Janet Dodds 32, daughter b. Jedburgh
Charlotte Turnbull 16, granddaughter, b. Jedburgh
Address: Bougedward Village, Jedburgh
And then for 1861:
James B Crease 55, Woollen Manufacturer Emplyings 10 Man 16 Boys 18 Wornen, b. Edinburgh
Jane Crease 50
Charles Crease 15
Charlotte Turnbull 23, housemaid, b. Jedburgh
Isabella Turnbull 50, Domestic Cook, b. Crailing Rox.
Address: Bonjedward Keuk (messy transcript!), Jedburgh
If we have the right entry for Charlotte in Lilliesleaf in 1871, she looks to have married in England

post census in 1861, with the children showing as born there (I can't easily see the marriage in Scotland) and then shows in Lilliesleaf in 1871. A check of any of the Scottish born children would help to confirm marriage place and date*
John Falla 34, Blacksmith (master Employing 1 Boy), b. Lilliesleaf
Charlotte Falla 33, b. Jedburgh
William Falla 6, b. England
Jane Falla 3, b. England
Address: Dunstan Hends House, Lilliesleaf
One thought that has just struck me, having done potential census entries chronologically, is that in 1862 we have George Taylor reference of visiting Charlotte, Jean's married sister in Lilliesleaf. John Falla and wife Charlotte Turnbull would have to had married in 1861/2 and be living in Lilliesleaf at that point before England.....all getting a bit stretched without any facts

Monica
* IGI entry for a child to John Falla and Charlotte Turnbull:
JOHN DODDS FALLA Birth: 24 AUG 1871 Lilliesleaf, Roxburgh, Scotland
That middle name of Dodds points to those earlier census entries for a granddaughter Charlotte in the Dodds household.