Dear Coz
Oops yes, you did mention the remove!!  But after all what's a remove in a generation or two?  
Do you remember your antecedents?  I find it helps such a lot.  For example I remember three of my great-grandparents well, and one of them I knew right until I was well grown-up, in other words she was not just a shadowy figure from when I was three or something like that.  If I take it back to her great-grandparents, I feel the link goes back for miles.
Sadly it is not the particular great-grandparents we have been discussing that I remember -  I just mean in general terms.
Would you like to know, though, that your 4th cousin twice removed - viz my father is going to be 91 years old tomorrow?!!  Now he can remember a good way back which brings the forebears to life, doesn't it?  He remembers his grandmother, Maud, who was born in India, the one who married Mordaunt the polo-player!
One more titbit, nothing to do with the Hearseys is:  that my papa's grandfather (not the one on your side) was borne in William IV's reign.  I mean my darling Daddy is still with us, going up to London, etc etc and yet his grandpa was born before Queen Victoria came to the throne - I was bowled over when I found out!!
Sorry it's late, I digress, Marione.