
What a difference in a week since I left, positively balmy in London tonight!
Not sure if the Wilder name will necessarily mean anything Marty. Still of a mind of sharing a grave here! There is a John Wilder, aged 59, and John Jnr, 22, showing in Woolwich in 1861. John Snr a bookmaker, son a carter both born London/Kent. I can see John Jnr in 1881 boarding in Woolwich, an auctioneer's porter...so, maybe father's death in 1864?
Added: Yep, looks v. likely it is the same one. He shows as John T. Wilder in 1851 (HO107; Piece: 1589; Folio: 114; Page: 1)