A couple of possibles for Sarah in 1841 are in Nottingham and Sheffield, but this one seems closest, not with parents though. Birthplace South Kirkby about 11 miles from Wakefield
HO107/1271/8 Folio 43 Page 14
Lake Lodge, Stanley, Wakefield, Yorkshire
in household of Joseph Atkinson, merchant
Sarah Elvidge 20 Female Servant born Yorkshire
Barbara