Hi Everyone and Thank You for all the kind replies.
I know it's a bit late in the day, and people probably have different commitments now, so I'll understand if noone is able to go, but I have got the exact details of the grave at Weaste from my auntie.
The plot number is Grave 3047, Section C 20.
It's a grave bought for Gurney Patmore in 1883 by his son Alfred. Alfred and five other relatives are also buried there.
There may not be as much as I'd hoped even to see. She also told me about a letter I didn't know about, from Weaste a few years ago. They said the stone had sunk about a foot. It was a flat stone, but I'm not sure how high the sides were to start with. I knew it was meant to have sunk but not about the letter.
If anyone does have chance and they're going there anyway, I'd love to know what state it is in or even have a photo of what's ;est of the site.
Just for interest, she's also got some of the reciptsa from the grave and she gave me some quotes of costs - bearing in mind that this would not be the cheepest stone.
To open the grave - £6 2s 6d
Stone and Inscription - £2 10s
Registrar - 3s
I guess that's inflation!
Thank you again, but no pressure as I said, I know it's a while ago.
Best wishes
Emms