Thanks Mike,
Lewes records office have confirmed that Thomas and Elizabeth Loofe were the parents of Thomas than married Ann Frie. Unfortunately they were unable to confirm Thomas seniors parents and the information that they did come up with was very confusing like the marriage to Elizabeth Manser but no marriage to Alice despite the children showing Alice as mother?
Might have to take a trip to Wadhurst and wander around in the cemetry.
Will let you know if I find any useful graves, if I don't get arrested, ha ha.
Alan