Thanks Sue, I'll take any shot, long or not at this stage.
Thing is, without the Father's name on the marriage entry how am i going to be able to confirm which baptism is the right one in the end? AArrgghh. Sometimes I wonder why I started this family history malarky!! This particular relative is driving me crazy but as he's a direct ancestor for my paternal line I feel I have to keep pushing at the brick wall to find out about him.
He ran a pub in Stockwell, Lambeth. I wonder if there are any records anywhere from when he took over that might mention who his parents or siblings were, or maybe a Will that would give me a clue??
Linda x