Thankyou Daisy Loo.
I would have posted this in that post but it was getting long and not so relevant to this question.
I hope i didnt sound rude Pauline, i didnt mean to not explain properly, when Millie's birth cert comes i think i will tatoo it on my arm

I can't find them on the 1891 either (yet) which made me start to doubt if Kate Eade (with the Bennett's was just Kate Eade of the Eade's )
Then Ada and Kate (like sisters) marry their children together.
Or is Kate Eade (Bennett) a real EADE with Mary's maiden name or a married name that links to my Eade family on the original Kate's side.
Or there are just lots of Kate Eades and its a coincidence.