Stephen, you mention Quaker connections. Here are 2 marriages from the SMI that might help,
Capel Quaker, Surrey, 14 May 1669:
Ann BAX, Capel SRY dau of Richard BAXS otsp
Thomas PARSONS, the younger Slaugham WSX
28 witnesses incl PARSONS Thomas, Timothy Richard BAX Richard Thos, Henry, Thos,
Thakeham Quaker, West Sussex, Date: 1 Jun 1714:
Edward BAX, son of Edwd B. yeo Ockley SRY
Margaret HAYLOR, dau of Benjamin H. yeo Billingshurst
43 witnesses incl BAX Edward senr Thomas, Nathan. Rebecca, Richard, Phillip, Dan
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