I have just spent a lovely long weekend in Worcestershire with my mum.
We spent two days at the History Centre looking for those long lost reletives, and then spent the rest of the weekend looking for the places she grew up in.
One of the houses held some bad memories for my mum, as her parents had split up there. She was determined to try and lay the ghosts to rest and decided she wanted to go and see it.
We knocked on the door (which was still the same door!) and spoke to the present owner and he kindly invited us inside to have a look around! Surprisingly very little had changed since they left there in the 1950s! The fireplaces in the bedrooms were the same and even the built in wardrobe in her parents bedroom was the same!
The man was very interested in my mums memories of the house, as he had lived there since 1978 and knew very little of its history.
It was very emotional for my mum, but she feels a lot happier about the place now as she knows it is now a happy home.
We also went to visit the village where my greatgreatgrandparents lived and we
think we found their house, and spoke to the owner, which was lovely.
The strange thing was, when seeing this house, I felt strangely at home and literally had to drag myself away from the house. We still arn't 100% sure that it is the right house, but it just felt so 'right'.
The only downside to our trip, was that we found the house where my granddad grew up in had been renovated in the 1960s and only the back part of the house remained.

I guess that will happen overtime though.
We received a friendly welcome from the owners of all the houses we went to and I would recommend to anyone who is unsure about knocking on the door to give it a go, you never know what you may find out! and 99% of the time, the owners are interested to hear what you have to say!