(thank you for the IGI explanation)...
Im the grandson of an Ethel Tolley from Bilston.. who was married to William Thomas Smith
Her father is William Tolley 1860, pattingham who was married to a Mary Ann Tolley (dont know her surname yet

) thats fom the 1911 census..
Williams father is Thomas Tolley 1837, Pattingham
Thomas TOLLEY Head M Male 44 Pattingham, Stafford, England Ag Lab
Martha TOLLEY Wife M Female 38 Bangor, Caernarvon, Wales
William TOLLEY Son U Male 21 Pattingham, Stafford, England Ag Lab
Thomas TOLLEY Son U Male 18 Pattingham, Stafford, England Ag Lab Wagoner
James TOLLEY Son Male 11 Quatt, Shropshire, England Scholar
Clara A. TOLLEY Daur Female 5 Pattingham, Stafford, England Scholar
Dwelling Nurton
Census Place Pattingham, Stafford, England
I have then looked Thomas up again and found ...
THOS. TOLLEY
Christening: 05 FEB 1837 Pattingham, Stafford, England
Parents:
Father: JOHN TOLLEY
Mother: SUSANNAH
But it doesnt have Susannahs maiden name...
is this your susannah?
Surely there cant be two, Thomas Tolleys born 1837 in Pattingham?
I dont know much of the tolleys yet so....
as for Me, Im a Smith...wolverhampton born and bred, with direct family being from wolverhampton and bilston