Thank You so much Barbara for the information, It sounds like it could be them as it was stated her death as her father being Reubin Smith, ( I am doing the happy dance and its not a good look

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Another descendant from the US has submitted her to Family search as Alice Smith born Cobham 1867 father Richard Mother Elizabeth, I was a little worried when I saw it and decided
not to take the lazy way out lol,
I would love the information on her siblings if you don't mind
giving them to me I have a few British cds, although I have not had much luck with them, but now I know who to look for,

I have the Surrey Marriage index but its only to 1837 and mainly rural, and the London church registers,
I have a lot of Australian ones if anyone ever wants me to help
them with look ups I would be happy to do so,
Thank you again for the information I am so grateful for any help as I have dreaded trying to do the Smiths, its a huge name to research. I am also sorry I did not reply earlier it was only when I was trying to delete some of the junk from my mail box that I saw yours and Pauline's reply.............Cheers Ellie