« Reply #1 on: Monday 24 November 08 20:30 GMT (UK) »
Given that Stevens is reasonably common, and that he alternates his first name, it would help to get his marraige certificate.
Joseph Stevens june qtr 1868 Newport M vol 11a pg 243 with Mary Ann Parfitt on the same page.
At least then you'll have a father's name to work from.
I can see 2 Josephs baptised around the time and there will be more Johns. The Joseph baptised in the Wesleyan church in 1831, son of Josiah, I think can be eliminated as he's a medical student in 1851.

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