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« Reply #45 on: Friday 21 November 08 02:41 GMT (UK) »
Matt, what a great story you are writing.

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« Reply #46 on: Friday 21 November 08 16:10 GMT (UK) »
can't wait for the next instalment!!
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« Reply #47 on: Friday 21 November 08 18:42 GMT (UK) »
Is tomorrow here yet?
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« Reply #48 on: Friday 21 November 08 18:59 GMT (UK) »
Just great Matt, you really have a way with words. More, More. Jesstidd


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« Reply #49 on: Friday 21 November 08 19:03 GMT (UK) »
Nothing But Bad Times: Chapter Three, Part One

After the union of Mary Ann Owens and Francis McDonald, 41 Richard Street must have been quite a busy place. Not only was it home to the newlyweds but it also played host to Catherine and her husband Charles McMillan. They had had two more children also in the years since Bernard’s death, so the place would have been anything but quiet and peaceful. With mum Eliza just on their doorstep, the family had a matriarch.

The next part of the story begins three months after Mary Ann and Francis got married. It is January 1886, and Francis has some worrying news for his new wife. Due to his job, he had been called away to work at Greenock for thirteen months. He would still be back, but not often at all, probably once every two months.

Meanwhile, at number 45 Richard Street, Eliza, now in her 45th year was struggling to provide for her two youngest, Ellen and Joseph. With no husband to support her now for nearly two years, and no support from her eldest kids due to their own financial strains, she took the last option on her list. She made an application for poor relief. The application was made at 1pm on February 9. An inspector came to see her the next day, and after seeing the state of the family and their well being, he recommended that they should not receive help, but should simply “go back home” to Ireland. Eliza refused to do this, and made a point of applying for relief again the very next day. Again, she was refused.
This is where things get really tough. The years 1886-89 were extremely busy for the Owens children. So much happened, I will try and get through it as best I can...

In March 1887, Mary Ann received a shock knock at the door, and found a man in a cap standing there in front of her, who told her that Francis was being brought home due to a condition he had come down with whilst at Greenock. He explained to her that he had phthisis, the old term given to what we now know as tuberculosis, and was a degenerative condition that would slowly kill him. For a woman of 24 who had been married barely five minutes to a man now suddenly registered as wholly disabled, this must have been crushing. It is crushing to think about. This was another obstacle in her path.

After thirteen months out of work, like his mother- in- law, Francis too had to apply for relief. Perhaps another reason he decided it was time to take the last resort, was that Mary Ann had dropped a bombshell on him. She was pregnant! For a man who is listed as wholly disabled he seemed quite fit to make babies! Nevertheless, with a little one on the way, money was needed, and quickly. This money was granted, the inspector saw for himself that Francis was in delicate health and approved relief. He was given medical relief from June 21, until July 31, although it is not stated how much. By this time, Eliza, Ellen and Joseph had been evicted on account of not having the money to pay rent, and were forced to stay at number 41, with Catherine, Mary Ann, and their growing families. Number 45 Richard Street was now home to twelve people spanning three generations.

As I mentioned, everything was happening at this point in time. But not everything was doom and gloom. There was a light relief in September 1888, when John Owens found love. In keeping with an Owens tradition, he married a spouse of Irish descent. She was Rose Ann McCann, and although born in Lanarkshire, he father was an Irish farmer. They married in a place now very familiar to the family, in St Patrick’s Chapel, Anderston, on September 22.

With her own struggle to feed Ellen and Joseph, on top of Mary Ann and Francis’ uncertain future, and her son’s wedding, Eliza was constantly thinking about what lay ahead for her kids. On top of this, news broke that her 18 year old son Bernard Jnr had also found himself a girl, named Elizabeth Carey, and had got her pregnant. To avoid scandal of an illegitimate birth, they quickly arranged to be married in April 1889. After all, they were a pious Roman Catholic family. But Ellen and Joseph were becoming poorer by the week, and Eliza needed to act. She decided to apply for relief, for a third time in as many years.  By this time, Eliza, Ellen and Joseph, had moved out Catherine’s house, and was taking residence in 32 Cheapside Street, with her newly wed son John just down the road at number 70.

Ellen and Joseph were a priority. The other children were doing well (enough) at this time. Bernard Jnr was about to marry, and was being trained for the Navy at Hamilton, and Elizabeth was a servant for the O’Connor family, at 61 Clyde Street. Eliza, this time, afraid of being rejected again, put her and her two youngest up for poorhouse entry. Eliza was accepted, whilst Ellen and Joseph were refused. Eliza was entered into the poorhouse on February 13. However, her experience there was short-lived. Just eleven days into her working there, the news came that Mary Ann had given birth to a healthy baby boy. Francis, although an extremely ill man, unable to hold his son, was now a father, and Eliza was a grandmother for the sixth time. Sadly, at this time also, her youngest daughter Ellen was ill, suffering from severe rheumatisms, and needed caring for. Therefore, Eliza put forth her nine year old son Joseph to go into the workhouse, alone, in her stead. This he did from March 1-12 …

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« Reply #50 on: Friday 21 November 08 19:05 GMT (UK) »
Nothing But Bad Times: Chapter Three, Part Two

If you thought that was hectic, wait and see! Joseph came out of the poorhouse on March 12 1889. From hereon, things move at a dramatically brisk pace. Less than 24 hours after Joseph came out of the poorhouse, Bernard Jnr’s fiancée Elizabeth Carey had given birth to an illegitimate son, and had called him Bernard. Baby Bernard was hidden from the public and given to Mary Ann to look after briefly, in order it to look as if she herself had given birth to twins. However this cover was only brief, as Bernard and Elizabeth married on April 25. Also, in this time, Eliza had applied for the fourth time for some sort of relief, and was again refused. After this, she must have simply accepted that nobody could help her, and struggled on. Her daughter Elizabeth, who was a servant to the O’Connor family, gave most of what she earned to her mother and siblings. The young Elizabeth saved and saved for months and eventually, she managed to get enough money together to move them out of Cheapside Street, and into number 77 Piccadilly Street, still in the Anderston District of Glasgow.

Back at 41 Richard Street, things were getting worse for Mary Ann. She struggled to look after her new born son Francis, and his dying father of the same name. Francis felt that he should again ask for some relief, and again, was granted some, this time from the St. Vincent de Paul society. They gave him two shillings a week: all they could afford. This occurred in May of 1889. Yet, Francis was declining rapidly. So much so that Catherine sent for Father Condon of St Patrick’s Chapel to administer the last rites. Father Condon was a close family friend to the Owens’. He, like them, fled Ireland after persecution and famine tore his parent’s lives apart. He married all of the Owens children, and had buried Bernard. It seemed that very soon, he would be burying Francis, whom he had married to Mary Ann just three years before.

On June 26 1889, after two years of unbearable pain and wasting away, Francis died in Richard Street at four in the afternoon. He was 29.The last thing he is likely to have seen was his wife holding his crying son in her arms. Baby Francis, only four months old almost to the day, would never remember his father’s face or his voice. Mary Ann was a widow at the age of 27, and all of a sudden, she was alone again. In all the hype that Scotland bore, all the future she hoped to have, she found that it was a mirage. The two most important men in her life were gone. All that was left was her God, and her birth family.

The tragedy was not the first to befall the Owens family and it would certainly not be the last. It was decided that as her sister Catherine once again fell pregnant in November 1889, it would be best if Mary Ann and baby Francis moved out. They both went to Piccadilly Street to live with Eliza, Ellen and Joseph.

After the death of Francis, the family had decided to leave Richard Street behind them. By time of the 1891 census, the Owens family now looked like this:

-Eliza was living at 77 Piccadilly Street, Anderston, with her widowed daughter Mary Ann and her own son Francis. Joseph Owens was also living at this address, and was a hammersman’s apprentice working for a man called John Devaney. His name will reappear later in the story.

-Catherine, Charles and their still growing were residing at 21 Catherine Street, Anderston.

-Bernard was away at sea, and so his wife Elizabeth Carey and their illegitimate child Bernard were living in Blackfriars with Elizabeth’s father Patrick. Bernard and Elizabeth had another son, in 1893/4, and named him John. After this, the family disappears. I don’t know what happened to Bernard Jnr, or his family.

-Elizabeth was a sixteen year old servant, still living with the O’Connor family in 61 Clyde Street.

- Ellen Owens had recovered from her rheumatisms and was in good health. She was now an adopted servant, living at 55 McIntyre Street, Anderston, with the Cathie family.

I am pretty sure in myself that 1889 is a year that the Owens children would have remembered until their dying day. After Francis’ death, Mary Ann was shattered. How could she possibly go on? As her great, great grandson, I cannot possibly understand how she managed to do what she did next. She refused help of any kind. She did not apply for any relief; she somehow managed to get by without a single farthing’s worth of help. I’ll save my own personal opinions of her until the end of the story…but I really have a lot of respect for her. Apart from the family she had around her, her own life was now in pieces. All she had to cling onto was her first born child. After what she had been through, she must have stayed awake day and night looking after him, making sure she wasn’t going to lose another part of her family. It is here around this time I think, that she starts to develop the grit and resilience that seems so much to define her…

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Re: Blog: "Nothing But Bad Times"
« Reply #51 on: Friday 21 November 08 20:51 GMT (UK) »
Matt  -  dont stop now,   what happens next......................................


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« Reply #52 on: Friday 21 November 08 21:52 GMT (UK) »
WoW Matt,

What a wonderful story and so well written.  I cant wait for more Please Please Please.

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« Reply #53 on: Friday 21 November 08 22:47 GMT (UK) »
Matt, You have Left us just hanging on a thread,  :'(

what happend .............like the phone ringing and missing the end of a movie
ORKNEY
FLETT, CLOUSTON,  WHISHART, SCOTT, BRUCE,
ABERDEEN AREA:THOMSON, ROSIE, CHAFFEY, ALLAN,               
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IRELAND:DOUGLAS,BLACK,McAULAY,KEAYS,TWEED,MITCHELL,
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