Hi again Mogue,
Regarding the information you heard about James joining the army in Cork and then went to England and joined the army is partly true:
As far as I know at some point James left Monamolin (I don't know when this was) but in Limerick during 1932 he got married to Ellen Manly/Manley (of Limerick).
I know he had a long career in the Army, at some point he was a provost sergeant in Collin's Barracks, Cork - his first daughter was born there in 1933. He had 5 daughters whilst in the barrack's and stayed there until he left for England. Apparently about 1948 there were no real work opportunities for women and Ellen, being the mother of 5 girls who were at or nearing working age, decided that she wanted them all to move to be near her sister - Bridget Manly - who had previously moved to England. So she and the girls went and she told James he could follow them if he wanted to, which he eventually did, reluctantly, as he wasn't a great fan of the English (to put it mildly!).
He definitely didn't join the British army though, on arrival in England he found some kind of work "indoors", such as office or factory work I presume, but he wouldn't do that as he said he had to be "working outdoors". So he found a job as a street lamp glass cleaner, cleaning the gas lamps that lit the streets in those days.
I don't think James had contact with his siblings in England, at least I know his daughters never heard or saw any of them. I am unaware of his brother Joe you mentioned (who moved to England). I am currently only aware of James' sibling as of the 1911 census (Patrick, Charlis, Jack and Maggie), although I hear from family that James was said to be one of thirteen children. It would be really helpful if you have details of all James' brothers and sisters.
My mother recalls some Burkes attending James' funeral and one introducing himself as James' brother (perhaps John, Jack or Joe).
It is interesting to hear James was last home about 1958/60, do you know if it was just a short visit or did he return for a while? His wife Ellen had died in 1957 and I think the daughters would have probably moved out into their own places by then. I understand James married again after that to a lady named Doris where they continued to live in the city of Bradford in West Yorkshire until James died in 1979.
Thanks for the clarification regarding the Margarets, it makes more sense to me now I was getting a bit confused for a while there.
I appreciate all the information, it is helping me no end!
Regards,
Patrick.