Aly......
Don't wish to confuse you more, but have just come across this 1871 census.
1H 17 Court , Norfolk Street, St Thomas , Liverpool.
John Judge / head / age 53 / labourer / born Ireland
Bridget Judge / wife / age 43 / born Ireland
John Judge / son / age 23 / labourer / born Ireland
Peter Judge / son / age 17 / labourer / born Liverpool
Patrick LAPING / grandson / age 7 / born Liverpool
Ann LAPING / grandaughter / age 5 / born Liverpool
I can find no sign of John snr, Mary or John jnr
in later census , no Ann , but Patrick seems to end up in Northumberland , where there are a few Irish Lapping/ Lappin.
I wonder if this is the John Lapping , who married Mary Judge......
1841 census
Newcastle on Tyne
Patrick Lapping / 28 / labourer / born Ireland
Agnes Lapping / 28 / born Ireland
JOHN LAPPING / age 6 / born in County / no
Thomas Lapping / age 2 / born in County / no
Regards
JeannieR
Ps. I have just realised, that I put the name of Mary Judge , as head of house , on the 1861 census details , I posted....it shoulld be Bridget....