Hi There.......
John Lapping , married in Gibralter in 1890 registered in volume 25
a son was born , also John , registered Gibralter 1891 , whilst dad was serving with the 40th regiment . Volume 1127 page 138 .
1901 census
10 Pauls ?? Grove Road , Portsmouth.
Elizabeth J Lapping / widow / age 25 / living on a pension / born Isle of Wight
John Lapping / son / age 9 / born Gibralter
Frederick lapping / age 7 / born Egypt
Albert Lapping / son / age 5 / born Lancs
William Lapping / son / age 8 months / born Lancashire
If you get the marriage certificate , it will give his father name and occupation . You can do this online .
www.gro.gov.ukHope this helps
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JeannieR