I'm not going to quote, as it makes the post waaay to long

...but here's the next lot of questions!
Norman was Eric's brother yes. As was George Harold. I had a few of the ships lists of George Harold & Selina coming in, but none going out. The fact that you found their death's is very interesting to me. Violet Muriel isn't the only mystery here. Selina is one.
Norman, Eric & George had the same father, Harry. Harry had a brother, John, who was father to a Selina Hilsden, who was my G-grandfather's twin. At this, you are guessing maybe what come's next

I have Selina Hilsden, b.1880, High Wycombe, Bucks...in the 1901 census, then she disappears. I can't find a marriage or death for her.
When I found the Canadian link in my family...what did I find, but a Selina Hilsden (also born 1880) travelling with George Harold. Could they have been cousins? And were they really married?
You gave me their death's in Canada, and Selina was 7 years older than George Harold... (btw, I believe Harold, and George Harold on the ships lists were the same man)
Also, the address they had down, on the incoming to England, was that of George Rupert Hilsden, who was my Selina's brother.
Any additional info that you could find on Selina & George Harold, and/or any of their children, would be MUCH appreciated.
Now on to Harry & Maria and Violet. Harry and Maria were the parents of the 3 boys, George, Eric & Norman. So they had 3 boys, all grown up, and them they had, years later a little girl called Violet.. are their death records for Harry & Maria in Canada?
This is all I can get my head round for now. Janice, I so appreciate this,...finally a break through on the Canadian side!