Hi! Melody
Can add more mystery to your man, that is if it is the one you are looking for. You say he married Emily in 1866, this is a family I found on the 1881 census Henry is married to an Emily and he was born Folkstone in Kent.
They are living at Highfield Road, Steads Buildings, Hemsworth, York
Henry Age 36 B. Folkstone Coal Miner
Emily Age 36 B. Lichfield
Charles Age 18 B. Lichfield Pony Driver in Pit
Mary Ann Age 14 B. Lichfield
Alice Age 12 B. Standbridge Scholar
Harry Age 10 B. Cotham, York Scholar
Herbert Wm. Age 8 B. Rosedale Abby, York Scholar
Enoch Age 7 B. Prolton,Cleveland Scholar
Gabriel Age 1 B. Fairburn, York
Edward Age 2M B. Hemsworth
You will find this on the 1881 census on the follwoing site
http://www.familysearch.org/Catherine
