I agree with Lynn and Diane, the users have changed. There seems to be more people there who get offended easily and more self-appointed thought police (PCBUBs) and a lot of threads on the "general topics" are squabbles, apologies, "lets get back to being friendly", etc, etc.
But if you forget the "general topics" and just visit "tips" and "record office", there are, as on here, lots of friendly, helpful people, doing look-ups, sharing useful links and info.
I shall stay there for now, but I won't bother renewing, when my subscription runs out !