I see you mention the Webbs of Longdown, my wife's name was Webb, her father was Edwin Webb and they all decended from the Longdown, Totton, Woodlands area over the 18/1900's Most were from the Farming community, I
think the Barker-Mills family owned a great deal of the area and probably Staplewood farm as well all my wifes family lived in tied cottages or small holdings on the estate as did we when we married, we lived in Twiggs lane. The estate was later taken over by the niece who was married to an MP by the name of Hudson-Davis