Hi Diana,
Your Welcome, its been nice to do a bit of research again and have a little bit of success.
I had wondered if Amelia never married and it looks like you could be correct.
I would still like to put dates and full names to the Marriage and Death of Mary, who I still suspect is a Turner, and also Sarah. Their death dates pre date (I think) the creation of Nottingham General Cemetary and CHurch Cemetary. The two Churches in the Lace market area are St Mary's and St Nicolas, so I would think one or both might be there. However because of the Park Street address, which seems to be across town in Lenton, the closest there would be Holy Trinity.
I think now that Thomas was a late convert to the Wesleyian Church. This could have been a part tactical/political choice. Of the powerful people in Nottingham (Mayors, businessmen, officials) a very high proportion were non-conformists and of these the biggest number were Wesleyan. For example, John Warner's wife Sarah ran a Wesleyan Private Girls School very successfully and she is written about in the Wesleyan Magazine many times, even 60 years after her death. Her cousin, with whom she is buried, was Mayor of Nottingham 3 times. I think it was a bit of a club and commercially it paid to be in it and not outside. Sarah and John were very well connected within this network and would have been well placed to Introduce Thomas to key people.
I have collected and taken pictures of some parts of the Lace Market, like Halifax Place, on which still stands one of the oldest Nottingham Wesleyan Chapels, which if memory serves was ministered to be Sampson Biddulph, who also happens to hold the post of Teacher (Rigilious) at Sarah's school.
If you send me your email address in a private message (PM) I will email you some photos.
I will try a few options to see if Mary and Sarah's details can be found.
Best regards - Mark
Added - A very kind roots chatter (a Lady called Sunflower) found this burial for you.
Mary Jerram 7.4.1811 St Nicolas , wife of Thomas.
I think the source will be the Notts Family History Society's CD's but I cannot yet confirm this.
Having got this date of death for Mary, have you seen this other Baptism on the freereg site?
Ann Jerram Bpt 24.8.1813 St Nicolas
Father Thomas, Mother Ann
Sex - Female
Abode - Park Street,
Father's occupation Hosier
This fits with the 1815 Commercial Directory which gave Thomas' address as Park St.
Does this mean a 4th marriage or could Ann and Sarah be the same person perhaps. I am reasonably certain there isn't a second Thomas Jerram Hosier and Lace Manufacturer as the only other Jerrams I have pick up are James and John T and George Turner Jerram in this trade and at this level.
Added 2 - Sunflower has come up with some more info.
Charles Jerram born in 1806 was buried 1/3/1808, St Nicolas, Son of Thomas
Ann Jerram aged 36 Buried 23/8/1813 St Nicolas, Park Street.
It seems this Ann, if she is another wife of our Thomas, probably died due to to complications in child birth of the Ann Bpt 24/8/1813. The dates and Address make this a reasonable guess.
So Sarah and Ann are not the same person and Sarah's marriage is now most likely between 8 1813 and 1817.