Hi Susie
I love getting a cert in the mail. I can never drive the 20km home after collecting the mail....I sit on the side of our back road and have a read. Oh I sound a sad soul 
Just checked my CD of Transcriptions of Monumental Inscriptions at Melbourne General Cemetery...no Catherine so there is no headstone....just in case you were wondering.
Cheers
Cando
Dear Cando,
Aren't you a delight.....I was just sitting here getting more and more frustrated trying to find her in the New Melbourne Cemetery and the Fawkner Cemetery (which apparently was also called the New Melbourne Cemetery). Now, I will stop searching!
Still curious about Barnard Connor (her son in law reported her death and he didn't know his christian name).
In the same mail box today was a letter from my great uncle (Mary Knight nee Hutton's son) who was the trapeze circus performer. Her has enclosed an ancient letter from the daughter of George Frederick Hutton who was Robert's brother.
Amazing letter in which she states that her dad, aunt and uncle all died in Victoria and another uncle died in New Zealand. Up until now, I had assumed that Robert had migrated out by himself (haven't found his ship yet), but it appears the family came out. This letter also talks about two other children born in Scotland, one dying at 4 years old and one at 5 days.
So, in the same mail delivery, one case closed, and several more opened!!!!

Jenn....it doesn't say if she was a widow, and it says she was born in England. I'll google the house (it's such fun!)

Cheers
Susie