Hallo Chris,
Is it possible for you to look up the 1861/71 census' for me or is it just BMD? Flimwell Mill near Ticehurst. I know my GGGgrandfather was miller there in about 1865, he was a John Weston wife Eliza, I know of one son born 1866 Luther. On Luthers birth cert it says mother Eliza Weston formerly Saunders so theres a good chance that they were married although I cant find it, I thought if the census' were checked they might show other children and also narrow the wedding date down a bit, by the 1881 census both John and Eliza have disappeared, he might have died and she might have remarried any help appreciated, Jean