Well as you see I keep hitting brick walls

Emma was definately and interesting person. Thomas Davies dies in 1903 or 1904 and she remarried again after that to a Mr. Allen. On James Powell's military records (which I have full copies of...

) His next of kin is first listed in 1905 as Emma Allen, mother, then it changes to Thomas Henry Powell (Henry Lilliman?) then to my grandmother Ellen Marshall.
I have found a military record for Henry Powell Lilliman or Lilliman Powell. My mother remembers my dad having an uncle Tom and an Aunt Bertha that they went to see once in Rochale, but that's all she remembers. None of the family I'm in contact with have any other information. So here I am still digging

Karen